You Just Want a Normal, Healthy Relationship
But yours rarely are.
It may have begun in childhood-watching your parents in their dysfunction, living in a home with a narcissistic parent, being raised in an environment that is highly controlling and extreme in “religious” ideology, childhood abuse-emotional, physical and/or sexual.
Then venturing into your own relationship only to repeat many of the same harmful patterns.
You Keep Picking the Wrong Person
And it keeps you in the cycle you know.
It is hard to escape when you don’t have boundaries, and you don’t know who the crazy one is-you or them!!
You accept the unacceptable because that’s what you have always done.
When you pick the right one it still fails
When love does come your way, you hear everything with skepticism and doubt.
You can’t trust, so you can’t be fully intimate.
You’re always on guard, waiting for everything to fall apart-and it will.
A relationship without trust, vulnerability is hard to sustain.
Obviously, Sabotage Isn’t Your Objective
It’s just that you’ve been hurt.
As a child.
In past adult relationships.
Betrayal.
Abuse.
Your attempts to protect yourself from more pain create distance and keep you from the relationship you deserve.
Let’s Stop This Pattern – PERMANENTLY
Using a brief form of therapy which includes EMDR, you won’t have to spend years in therapy talking about your past.
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is designed to be a quick intervention.
Instead of exploring and discussing your trauma, EMDR reduces emotional distress directly in your brain and body. It uses bi-lateral stimulation through movement to “unblock” the trauma so you can heal naturally.
You won’t forget what happened, but you won’t be triggered by it anymore.
You Have to Do This
Trauma won’t heal itself. Like gum on the bottom of your shoe, it doesn’t just go away.
When you’ve had enough of the past playing havoc with your present, reach out.
Let’s knock out the trauma so you can have the healthy relationship you deserve.
Call (201) 485-9558 for your free phone consultation
